What questions to ask at speed dating events
- Catherine Llewellyn
- Dec 17, 2019
- 4 min read
Updated: 5 days ago
Don't know what to ask when speed dating? Keep it light-hearted and fun and the conversation will soon start to flow. We have put together some questions to ask when speed dating to help you you get stuck! Pick and chose the questions you like and make a note on your phone or write some down.......
First dates can be awkward… but they don’t have to be! Whether you’re heading to a speed dating event or meeting someone for a coffee, asking the right questions can spark chemistry, laughs, and some seriously meaningful connections. Here's a mix of playful, thoughtful, and just-the-right-amount-of-cheeky questions to help break the ice:
What questions to ask at speed dating events
🔥 The Warm-Up Round
What do you do for work?A classic opener—just don’t stop here. Use it to segue into what they love about their job (or dream of doing).
Where’s home for you?Helps you map out their background—and whether they live close enough for spontaneous meetups.
What’s one thing I should know about you?Great for moving past small talk and getting to the heart of who they are.
💘 Let’s Get Personal
When was your last relationship and how long did it last?Direct but useful. This one opens the door to honest conversation.
What are you actually looking for right now?Let’s not waste time—are you on the same page?
What do you think is the most important value in a relationship?Hint: there’s no wrong answer, but it says a lot about their outlook.
Ever been married—or want to be?Big talk? Maybe. But it helps to know if you’re heading in the same direction.
What would your ideal partner be like?This one can spark a fun and flirty comparison… 👀
Do you have or want kids someday?It’s a future-forward question but an essential one if you're thinking long term.
🎉 Let’s Talk Fun
What do you do for fun?Because “Netflix and chill” means different things to different people...
What are you most proud of?A great window into what they value—be it ambition, kindness, or adventure.
Is religion important to you?If faith is a big part of your life, this is worth discussing early on.
Are you into politics—or like to avoid it?Sparks may fly... and not just the romantic kind!
Do you believe in love at first sight?A cute question that tells you if they’re a closet romantic or a total realist.
What’s your most treasured possession?From a favorite guitar to their nan’s necklace, this reveals what really matters to them.
What’s your favorite month of the year—and why?Let’s see if you both love beach trips or cozy winter vibes.
📚 Let’s Get Culture Curious
What’s your favorite book or movie?Great for bonding over shared tastes—or friendly debates.
Last book you read?For the readers... and audiobook lovers.
What’s a job you’d love to do for just one day?Astronaut? Food critic? Professional napper?
Favorite band or artist of all time?Let’s see if you’re headbanging at the same concert or dancing to different beats.
Pets—yay or nay?Because “cat person vs. dog person” can be make or break.
☕ Chill Vibes & Deep Thoughts
How do you spend your weekends?Sunday brunch or wild camping?
Where do you see yourself in five years?Goals, dreams, and plans—let’s see if they’re going places.
If you were a wild animal, what would you be?Silly but fun—and surprisingly revealing.
Cup half full or half empty?A cheeky way to check if they’re more Eeyore or Tigger.
If you could undo one mistake, what would it be?This one gets real—but shows depth.
You’ve got six months to live. What’s first on your bucket list?Adventure, love, travel? The answer says it all.
Pineapple on pizza: yay or never speak again? 🍍🍕A classic—and possibly a deal-breaker.
🧒 Throwbacks & Laughs
Who was your childhood hero?From Power Rangers to pop stars, this gets nostalgic fast.
What would you do if you won the lottery?Are they saving the planet or buying a jet?
Who was your first crush?Cue the blushes and laughs.
What makes you laugh—and what gets the tears flowing?Emotional depth, incoming.
What’s your go-to dish if friends are coming over?Bonus points if they can cook AND clean.
Describe your dream holiday.Snowy mountain lodge or beachside mojitos?
TV show you’d never miss?You might just discover your next binge-watch.
🎧 Getting to Know the Vibes
What was the last album you bought or streamed?Shows their taste—and tech habits.
Morning person or night owl?This could seriously impact future breakfast dates.
Would you rather climb a mountain or cross a desert?Two types of adventurers here—pick your player.
What word would your best friend use to describe you?Let’s hope it’s something flattering...
If you could live anywhere, where would it be?Tells you a lot about lifestyle goals and dreams.
If you could be someone else for a day, who would it be?From celebrities to historical icons, the answer's always fun.
Favorite actor/actress and why?Movie buff moment incoming.
Favorite sportsperson?This question might lead to watching matches together—or playful rivalries.
What sport do you love (or love to watch)?Active or armchair fan—either way, it’s good to know.
Comedy, thriller, or action movie?Cinematic compatibility check ✔️
So there you have it! Next time you’re headed on a date or speed dating event, drop a few of these into the conversation. You’ll skip the boring small talk and get straight to the fun, flirty, and real stuff.
💡 Pro tip: Don’t treat this like a job interview—keep it light, be curious, and let the conversation flow naturally.
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