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How to Make the Best First Impression at Your Speed Dating Event

Updated: 7 days ago


We want you to absolutely shine at your speed dating event — after all, you’ve only got 5 minutes to make a connection that could lead to something amazing! ✨To help you get off to a flying start, we’ve put together our top tips to help you feel confident, relaxed, and unforgettable.


1. Arrive Early — Calm and Collected

First impressions start before you even sit down!Arrive at least 15 minutes early to check in with your host, grab a drink, and settle your nerves before the brief begins. Rushing in late and flustered isn’t the vibe we’re aiming for — cool, calm, and ready is the way to go.


2. Dress to Impress (and Feel Amazing!)

Your date's first glimpse of you says everything, so make it count!Think freshly ironed clothes, a shower-fresh scent, maybe even a sharp new haircut. ✂️It’s not about being perfect — it’s about showing up as the best version of yourself.Dress in a way that makes you feel confident and attractive... and trust us, they'll notice.


3. Be Authentically You

Of course, it’s important to make a good impression — but don’t pretend to be someone you’re not. The best connections happen when you’re relaxed, genuine, and true to yourself.Authenticity builds trust, respect, and (best of all) chemistry.


4. Flash That Winning Smile

Want to instantly double your attractiveness? Smile.A warm, genuine smile not only puts your date at ease — it’ll help you feel calmer too. Smile naturally, not robotically — just enough to show you're happy to be there. (Because you are!)


5. Show Confidence Through Body Language

You might be nervous — and that’s totally normal — but your body language can still send confident signals.

  • Stand tall.

  • Make easy eye contact.

  • Offer a friendly handshake or relaxed greeting.

Little things like biting nails or fidgeting are just nerves — if you catch yourself, take a deep breath and reset. You've got this!


6. Keep the Conversation Light and Fun

Speed dating isn't the time for heavy debates (no politics or Brexit rants, please!).Instead, steer the chat toward positive, shared interests. Love live music? Ask about favourite bands. A golf enthusiast? See if they’ve ever played a round.

Finding common ground will make the conversation flow naturally — and leave both of you wanting more time together.


7. Manners Matter (A Lot)

It sounds simple, but basic politeness can be seriously attractive.

  • Switch your phone off before you start.

  • Make eye contact.

  • Listen carefully and show genuine interest.

When someone feels heard and valued, you leave a lasting — and lovely — impression.


8. Stay Positive, Stay Approachable

Bring your sunshine! ☀️A positive attitude and easygoing vibe make you instantly more attractive. Relax, laugh, and show your date you're great company — someone they’d love to see again.


Final Thought

Speed dating is all about good vibes, great energy, and real connections. Follow these tips, be yourself, and trust the process — you might just meet someone incredible.



 
 
 

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