How to Move a Situationship to the Next Level
- Catherine Llewellyn
- 6 days ago
- 3 min read
Updated: 5 days ago
In the world of modern dating, situationships are more common than ever — that murky middle ground between “just hanging out” and “we’re a couple.” You’re spending time together, texting often, maybe even acting like you're in a relationship… but there's one major thing missing: clarity.
If you’re catching real feelings and wondering how to shift your situationship into something more serious, you’re not alone — and you’re not crazy for wanting more.
Here’s how to take things to the next level without the drama, mind games, or ultimatums.
How to Move a Situationship to the Next Level (Without Losing Your Mind)
💬 1. Check In With Yourself First - Are You Ready for The Next Level?
Before talking to your maybe-partner, get clear on what you want. Ask yourself:
Do I want exclusivity?
Am I ready for a real relationship?
Would I still want this person if things got serious?
Understanding your own desires (and non-negotiables) is key before trying to define anything.
🧠 2. Don’t Assume — Communicate
The biggest trap in situationships? Assuming you're on the same page. Spoiler: you probably aren't — yet. Situationship relationships can be tought.
The only way to know where you stand is to ask. It doesn’t have to be a dramatic conversation. Try this:
“I’ve really enjoyed spending time with you — and I feel like we’ve built something meaningful. I’d love to know where you see this going.”
Keep it light, honest, and confident — not confrontational. Moving a situationship to the next level takes time.
🕵️ 3. Watch Their Actions, Not Just Their Words
When you bring up commitment, pay attention not just to what they say… but what they do next.
Are they:
Consistent?
Emotionally available?
Making you a priority?
Taking steps to define your relationship?
If their actions align with your needs, that’s a good sign. If not — well, that is your answer.
⚠️ 4. Be Ready for Any Outcome
The truth? Not every situationship graduates to a relationship.If they’re not willing or ready to take the next step, it might hurt — but it gives you the freedom to walk away and find something better.
Don’t cling to potential. Hold out for someone who wants to meet you fully, not halfway.
✨ 5. Know Your Worth
You deserve a relationship that is:
Mutual
Respectful
Emotionally safe
And clearly defined
If someone keeps you in the grey area indefinitely, they’re showing you what their boundaries are — and it’s okay for you to outgrow that.
Your time and emotional energy are valuable. Don’t spend them on someone who won’t meet you where you are. Moving a situationship on and taking it up a level is worth doing when you are in the same headspace.
Final Thoughts: Define It or Move On
A situationship can become a real relationship — but only if both people are ready, open, and willing to communicate.If you're stuck in limbo, it's not a sign to stay quiet… it's a sign to speak up.
Because the right person won’t be afraid to call it what it is — and call you theirs.
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