Is Speed Dating for me?

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Why Speed Dating Might Just Be Your New Favourite Night Out 💘

Think speed dating isn't for you? Think again! Speed dating is for everyone—and we mean it. Our events attract a fantastic mix of people from all walks of life. Whether you're a confident chatterbox or a little nervous about dipping your toe into the dating pool, you're not alone. In fact, most people come solo—and they leave with new friends, fresh connections, and sometimes, even a spark of romance.

Worried about turning up on your own? Don’t be! You’ll be in great company with others in the same boat. That said, if it helps you feel more comfortable, feel free to bring a friend along for moral support. They can join the fun and speed date too, or chill at the bar cheering you on with a cocktail in hand. 🍸

So, why not give it a go? Our flirty five-minute mini dates are the perfect blend of exciting and low-pressure. Who knows—one of them might just be the start of something amazing.

✨ You’ve got nothing to lose, and potentially everything to gain. Five minutes could change your life...

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“We’re all a little weird. And life is a little weird. And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness—and call it love—true love.” ― Robert Fulghum, True Love

Final Thoughts: Dating Should Be Fun

The goal of a first date isn’t perfection — it’s connection. Be kind, be open, and remember: you’re not trying to impress everyone. You’re looking for someone who gets you.

So take a breath, trust yourself, and go enjoy that drink — your next great love story could start tonight.

Final Thoughts: Dating Should Be Fun

The goal of a first date isn’t perfection — it’s connection. Be kind, be open, and remember: you’re not trying to impress everyone. You’re looking for someone who gets you.

So take a breath, trust yourself, and go enjoy that drink — your next great love story could start tonight.

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